If you get a invitation to a wedding you can go with him/her. The times of the wedding ceremony and reception are both on the invitation. The ceremony is only for close family. In Poland, the bridge and groom have to go to the ceremony together. The father a groom a friend of the groom has to make a speech. Guest given presets and followers. Bride is white and groom is black. After wedding is wedding party guest like for music and dancing till late. After the weeding reception the bride and groom went on holiday.