Volleyball

Calderon was offered a pro volleyball opportunity in 1998 in Barcelona, Spain but decided instead to finish his degree.^[8] He was offered the assistant coach position for the Long Beach State University women's volleyball team.^[8] He did so for five years, first as a volunteer for three years, then paid for two more years.^[8][11] He credits the time as learning the differences between men's and women's volleyball styles.^[8] At the same time he got a local club coaching position at Mizuno Long Beach Volleyball Club,^[8] and began coaching for Junior Olympics.^[9] He began his professional volleyball career in 2004 and became a nationally ranked Association of Volleyball Professionals player.^[12]

Survivor

Calderon's dad died in 2005,^[13] right before the Survivor opportunity, and it let him feel free to express his emotions as he never had a good relationship with his dad.^[9] He was approached by a CBS recruiting coordinator to be on the show when he was having breakfast with some friends.^[8] On Survivor: Cook Islands (2006), Calderon started off as one of five members of the Hispanic "Aitutaki" tribe.^[14][15] After the tribes were merged on day eight he became a member of the "Rarotonga" tribe. In retrospect he faults himself for viewing the series more as a sports competition than for the social aspects that build alliances.^[8] Calderon was the fourth cast member voted off in a 7/2 split.^[16][17] He credits the show with opening his eyes than he controlled his choices and had options.^[2]

The Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency

In 2007, Calderon began his modeling career when he joined the cast of The Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency.^[18][19] Stating that he had for a long time wished to model, Calderon came to an open casting call held in the first episode of Season 2. He said the process, and Dickinson, were fun, but they did have the models drop their modesty, and be naked, and in their underwear constantly.^[8] He was called back in episode 2 and eventually signed to the agency.

The third episode saw Calderon being approached to appear on the cover of Instinct magazine, a publication that requires that its male cover models be openly gay.^[9] Although he had been "in and around gay people and nightlife", he had not publicly talked about his sexuality to the media.^[20] He knew he was gay since high school, and even worked as a bartender in a gay bar.^[8] There were rumors that he was gay but he avoided addressing them, as well as invitations to interview with gay publications like Instinct.^[13] Calderon came out as gay on his appearance in the February 2007 issue, their swimsuit edition,^[21] which included the cover, a photo spread, feature story and interview.^[14][22] He said he wasn't pressured into the decision and was supported by Dickinson.^[23] "All of my fears, everything that I was scared of... it was the complete the opposite," he said. "It's been great. All of my friends, the volleyball world, absolutely everybody has been supportive. No one has shut me out."^[24] Dickinson, in particular, has been very supportive, and told him that her role models for being tough, driven and ambitious, were all gay men.^[19] He credits his coming out as helping him reprioritize his life.^[25] In 2009, he was also a cover model for the popular French gay magazine Têtu.^[26]

It was announced during the 4th season finale of The Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency that Calderon will head the male division of the agency when it moves to New York City. Calderon is also signed to KULT Model Agency in Germany.

Other

In 2011, Calderon was cast as part of Logo TV's A-List; Los Angeles, as part of their A-List franchise,^[27][28][29] but no cast or scheduling information has been forthcoming

In 2012, Calderon modeled for the NOH8 Campaign created by celebrity photographer Adam Bouska, to oppose California Proposition 8 which attempted to change California's constitution to forbid same-sex marriage.^[30]